In today’s episode, “Sleeping with the Patriarchy: Bisexual Men and Masculinity,” we’re talking about bi+ men and feelings of masculinity. Just a bit of a heads-up, today’s paper is about sex, so if you’re carpooling or at home around folks or young-uns that you don’t want to hear about that, grab your headphones!
Also buckle up, because honey, Bailey and Jace have thoughts, and lots of ‘em. Bi+ guys, know that these killjoys love you and it is for this exact reason why we need to discuss and critique this article and the data they collected. And for all of our listeners, we hope that today’s discussion brings you clarity on how you can be a better partner to your special someone(s). So, as some wise philosophers once said, let’s talk about sex, baby.
Hosted by bi+ academics, writers, and advocates Bailey Merlin and Jace Rios Rivera, Bisexual Killjoy talks about all things bisexual (pansexual, omnisexual, plurisexual, and overall bi+ness) because bisexuality isn’t a phase; it’s a phenomenon. Get even more Bisexual Killjoy content by joining our Patreon and following us on Instagram.
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Resources
- James P. Ravenhill, Jason Preston, Richard O. de Visser & Júlio Molica (2026) “I Feel More Masculine Having Sex with a Woman Than Being Fucked by a Man”: Masculinity and Bisexual Men's Experiences of Sex with Women and Men, The Journal of Sex Research, 63:5, 812-824, DOI: 10.1080/00224499.2024.2413695
Sound engineer: Richie Smith