CJ DeBarra is a journalist, writer, founder of the community-led Nottingham Queer History Archive project, and author of the book Neuroqueer: A Neurodivergent Guide to Love, Sex, and Everything in Between.
CJ's pronouns are they/them, and they are non-binary, queer, and neurodivergent. Find out what that means to CJ in this episode.
We also talk about different ways in which we may not fit in, how gender and neurodivergence affect sex and relationships, the non-linearity of these aspects of identity, internalised ableism, the importance of learning about ourselves and what we need to help us thrive, the journey of self-acceptance and healing through writing, and holding the door open for each other.
More on www.fiftyshadesofgender.com/cj